Intelligent Independent Funny Pretty Well read Loves movies Long Dark hair (willing to compromise on this) Athletic Deep but not moody Thoughtful Green eyes (willing to compromise) Owns executive box at Everton FC (non-negotiable) Owns 70's wardrobe
Intelligent - yeah Independent - yeah Funny - well ST thinks so Pretty - more stunning than pretty :-p Well read - nevr got time, sorry Loves movies - but nothing too deep or depressing Long Dark hair (willing to compromise on this) - dark, yes long, NO Athletic - when my knee works, yes Deep but not moody - very much so and very good at empathising Thoughtful - extremely but others rarely are to me Green eyes (willing to compromise) - nup, big & brown Owns executive box at Everton FC (non-negotiable) - who??? Owns 70's wardrobe - well I still have some of my baby clothes, does that count?
"6' plus broad shoulders good tone athlete long hair considerate kind funny clever bit of a dirty edge to him larger than average in certain areas pierced tongue rides an old brit (motorbike not woman)"
WE HAVE A WINNER. Now just need a brit and get my tounge pierced.......not that I have had any complaints.
When I was in my twenties I used to think I had a really clear idea what my perfect partner looked like... over the years I surprised myself feeling attracted to people who didn't at all fit that bill. I've never cared about lack of money, you just get by, but I'm not sure I could handle lazy. Self-respect is an important one, ideally without thinking you're God's gift though. Tolerant. Funny. Intelligent... Like I said I thought I knew what I was looking for in a partner but these days I'm not even sure he should be male?? LOL
"Intelligent... Like I said I thought I knew what I was looking for in a partner but these days I'm not even sure he should be male"
Stop looking in cardiff then. Full of gorrilas with knuckles that drag on the floor and support "city" the other ones support the "blues" and that is a joke
TT: Stop looking in cardiff then... Yeah, don't I just know it!!! Go on then TT where are those Tri shots... I nicely filled wetsuit could really cheer me up now... otherwise I'll really start looking at girls in desperation...
S'funny though, the number of people I've seen who had a clear idea of what they thought they found attractive a shopping list almost, and then ended up being smitten with someone entirely different!
I don't have an ideal any more. I just never meet anyone who is nice/available. That's the problem later in life but was thinking earlier that those that have been waiting for kids to grow up before going separate ways might be about to become available ... woo hoo!
KKD ... where did you and your mate go to meet ideals? I wouldn't know where to go any more.
When I was young it was bars and parties. Now ... I just don't know. I keep busy and occupied and meet people ... just not attractive, available men.
As for wonga ... it doesn't really matter but I do own my own home and drive a reasonable car ... I wouldn't really be up for sharing that with a layabout with nowt! Is that really mercenary (sp?) of me?
Also, I expect to leave anything I have to my son ... these things cause problems when people meet later in life. I would be quite happy for the same to be true of any partner but I know couples who have split up over how they expect things to be if one of them dies.
So, short fat and hairy is fine, 6' +, athletic and tanned is even better ... something in the bank (I don't mean millions) and a home of their own (even if not quite paid for) has to be essential.
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i like that my husband is popular and respected at work for what he does but also invited to all the leaving do's and golf days and stuff
Intelligent
Independent
Funny
Pretty
Well read
Loves movies
Long Dark hair (willing to compromise on this)
Athletic
Deep but not moody
Thoughtful
Green eyes (willing to compromise)
Owns executive box at Everton FC (non-negotiable)
Owns 70's wardrobe
See - I'm easy to please :-)
Its not whatcha do its they way that you do it!
So how are you going to use this 'research' than JB??
Intelligent - yeah
Independent - yeah
Funny - well ST thinks so
Pretty - more stunning than pretty :-p
Well read - nevr got time, sorry
Loves movies - but nothing too deep or depressing
Long Dark hair (willing to compromise on this) - dark, yes long, NO
Athletic - when my knee works, yes
Deep but not moody - very much so and very good at empathising
Thoughtful - extremely but others rarely are to me
Green eyes (willing to compromise) - nup, big & brown
Owns executive box at Everton FC (non-negotiable) - who???
Owns 70's wardrobe - well I still have some of my baby clothes, does that count?
;-D
broad shoulders
good tone
athlete
long hair
considerate
kind
funny
clever
bit of a dirty edge to him
larger than average in certain areas
pierced tongue
rides an old brit (motorbike not woman)"
WE HAVE A WINNER.
Now just need a brit and get my tounge pierced.......not that I have had any complaints.
My wife works for Goldman Sachs and keeps me in a cupboard all day till she gets home at 9 pm.
Then she makes me do bad things.
I made my choice long ago. Its great.
Stop looking in cardiff then. Full of gorrilas with knuckles that drag on the floor and support "city" the other ones support the "blues" and that is a joke
I much prefer a woman who is kind and understanding and with an optimistic outlook.
And if she also has a prominent decolletage - well, stick a fork in me, I'm done!
Have you not seen my tri photos?
ROFL!!!!
Fabulous!
ppppppfffffftttttt.......
Oops last nights curry there.
Well only as class as the ladys of RW.......
Get your coat mate, you've pulled.....
Full of sunshine here and does not match my trisuit.
;-)))
Chow all
Namaste - something about long hair - i think it ties in with the biker/dirty edge thing
who had a clear idea of what they thought they found attractive
a shopping list almost,
and then ended up being smitten with someone entirely different!
sod it
i would go for short and loaded
so i'm shallow
who didn't know that?
:-)
KKD ... where did you and your mate go to meet ideals? I wouldn't know where to go any more.
When I was young it was bars and parties. Now ... I just don't know. I keep busy and occupied and meet people ... just not attractive, available men.
As for wonga ... it doesn't really matter but I do own my own home and drive a reasonable car ... I wouldn't really be up for sharing that with a layabout with nowt! Is that really mercenary (sp?) of me?
Also, I expect to leave anything I have to my son ... these things cause problems when people meet later in life. I would be quite happy for the same to be true of any partner but I know couples who have split up over how they expect things to be if one of them dies.
So, short fat and hairy is fine, 6' +, athletic and tanned is even better ... something in the bank (I don't mean millions) and a home of their own (even if not quite paid for) has to be essential.