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I've been put in the position of applying for deputyship and a couple of awkward things have arisen that it's difficult to mention on the www. Does anyone know enough to answer a couple of straight forward questions?
Can't help Minty, but hope Jpenno can
thoughts are with you
Thanks JPenno - you have mail. Actually you have mail x 2 because the silly cat hit the escape key while I was in the middle of the first. I hope it all makes sense and thanks for offering to help.
Thanks Beebs. It's my step-mum who is unwell and it all feels so horrible. It looks as though we are going to have to sell her house to pay for nursing care and I feel so rotten about it because I keep wondering 'what if she gets better and we have to tell her she hasn't got a home to go to any more?'. Of course that's unlikely but this has all been so sudden, I can't get my head around it.
Off to look at nursing homes tomorrow which I'm not looking forward to. I don't even know what I'm looking for. How on earth do you make decisions like that? I don't even know what to look for in a nursing home.
Hopefully gut instinct will suffice.