I was thinking that beebs.....just because you are breastfeeding doesn't mean the baby is stuck to your nipples 24 hours a day.................if they are your doing something wrong............
ojk your nipple might be a bit sore for the first week or two but then other parts of you are still sore for the first couple of weeks so not many women are ready to have sex in the first couple of weeks................
maybe you had the hang up about sex whilst she was breastfeading..............and conciously/ unconsiously bullied her into giving up feeding the baby herself...........
i've never met any mother breastfeeding who feels any different about sex than a bottle feeding mother.
don't know about university JM..........thats a bit middle class of you..................I will be jumping through the hoops if my son can mange 2 D's at GCSE this year so he can get on a college course.
not saying that breast feding mothers are better..............its just better for the kids if you can.....kids have more immunity againgst illnesses, diseases and allergies...........
just can't see why people have to think that breastfeeding mums become some kind of saint or nun..........they do the same as any other mum but don't need to waste time sterilaising, and making up and warming up bottles of milk..............how does that somehow equate to them neglecting their partners or going off sex
Breastfeeding is free and there is nothing nicer than a line of terry nappies blowing in the sunshine, next to the organic veg raised bed with the free range chickens pecking for worms
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I was thinking that beebs.....just because you are breastfeeding doesn't mean the baby is stuck to your nipples 24 hours a day.................if they are your doing something wrong............
ojk your nipple might be a bit sore for the first week or two but then other parts of you are still sore for the first couple of weeks so not many women are ready to have sex in the first couple of weeks................
maybe you had the hang up about sex whilst she was breastfeading..............and conciously/ unconsiously bullied her into giving up feeding the baby herself...........
i've never met any mother breastfeeding who feels any different about sex than a bottle feeding mother.
Min
Seren that made my eyes water remembering
so true
I made bottles as a nanny and it put me right off
What is it about Fridays that someone just insists on making themselves look a total twat?
kk
don't know about university JM..........thats a bit middle class of you..................I will be jumping through the hoops if my son can mange 2 D's at GCSE this year so he can get on a college course.
not saying that breast feding mothers are better..............its just better for the kids if you can.....kids have more immunity againgst illnesses, diseases and allergies...........
just can't see why people have to think that breastfeeding mums become some kind of saint or nun..........they do the same as any other mum but don't need to waste time sterilaising, and making up and warming up bottles of milk..............how does that somehow equate to them neglecting their partners or going off sex
Oops I just said that out loud...
ps jiggy isn't the dog before you ask.
you don't have to drink or eat more if you are breastfeeding
welcome to this century JM
Breast feeding only requires an additional 200-500 calories a day hardly responsible for a huge gain in appetite.