Yeah I think if you tell them about all your past relationships on the first meeting or your 20 year history of psychiatric illness then that will scare them Alan!
There's a difference between gradually revealing yourself and actually playing games though, which I think is what Benz is driving at.
Not sure I see why you all make it sound so difficult... Surely if you like someone, you ask to see them. If it's all too complicated then maybe the person isn't right for you anyway???
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But we all want to get better
Im always surprised when peeps at work are amazed cos i walk a mile and a half to clinic
Still procrastinating Benz!
JFDI !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alright Benz, alright!
you want a reply dont you?
if ya like someone, tell em
lifes too short to mess about, unless you like the games, which i never have
When i think of all the time wasted game playing------
Still haven't posted BTW, keep getting busy on here!
Thats hard, cos if i fell i can talk to someone------
Also, if you really fancy someone,then its a bit too easy to start imagining things you have in common, and fantasising about the future
BUT
having said that
i think phoning someone after a night out, well, there =s no point in playing hard to get then
Just sent the thing - now wait nervously for her to get into work tomorrow morning and then be waiting for a response. Gulp!
i knew it wasnt your style
Im crossing everything
There's a difference between gradually revealing yourself and actually playing games though, which I think is what Benz is driving at.
I tell em ALL
then wonder why they dont call
plus I aint got no psychiatric illnesss!
just eg if being a Dr conjures up images of evenings at the Rotary Club I goota let them know early that isn't on the agenda
I'll get me coat
JJ