Crap at relationships

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  • Bear I think you're right when you talk about having scheduled activities or not. If you can't be comfortable titting about with someone on a free day when nothing is planned, then that doesn't bode well.

    I've realised today i've not a hope of finding the time to meet a man in the near future - my work 'To Do' list spans almost 4 pages of A4, and most of them are not quick jobs, so i'll have to work at home more in the evenings, my outgoings are about to increase & I'm skint enough as it is (although i'll be moving to a great new wee flat, so hopefully it will be worth it), and I didn't get the work bonus I thought I might because i've just officially joined the company, even though i've worked there for years image Sorry, just feeling a bit stressed about continued skintness, to much to do, and prospect of singledom forever more.... *sigh*

    Apologies for 'me me me' bit!

    As you were......
  • Aw Lea but you'll have your lovely little flat and a permanent position at the company which are both things you've really wanted for a long time ..... image 

    You'll get by on the money stuff and you'll work your way through the To Do list in time. image

    I won't say that someday your Prince will come .... I am older and I am sure I was in the queue first image We'll just have to make do with the lycra porn in Regensburg ....

  • CazSoul wrote (see)

    It She has said she doesn't want to kiss any more frogs...

    I suppose that's fine if you aren't one yourself - otherwise there might be people looking at her and thinking the same thing.   

  • I'm kinda happy i've found thread, its just highlighted to me that there seems to be a few other single people (male and female) out there. I had started to feel like I was the only one left!!!

    I agree with you Bear, I think its really important to be comfortable chilling out and doing nothing with each other.

    As for not kissing anymore frogs....we all need a little entertainment every now and then image Anyhows I don't really care what my prince looks like as long as he has his own teeth!!

    Hugs (((( )))) to all that need it. Sending out partner attracting vibes.
  • Thanks TP, you're right; a reality check was need, thank-you! Things could be much worse really so I shouldn't complain. I've drunk an entire bottle of wine though, so you've no idea how long it is taking to type this and correct mistakes!

    Merrylegs, so funny re your 'own teeth comment'. The joke about my life with my pals is that I only ever seem to get chatted up by old guys with tattoos and no teeth! I like tattoos, but not so much the lack of teeth!

    *grabs partner attracting vibes and shoves them in cleavage for safe keeping8 image
  • p.s I like l;ycra porn too image
  • Cake wrote (see)
    image Just because your hanging out with someone and chilling doesn't meen they have to be anything other than a friend Lisa. What happens happens just be happy. image (((hugs alround)))

    I'm finding it really difficult to explain myself but maybe thats half the problem... I dont know myself what I want!

    What I was trying to get across was probably more about intimacy and affection rather than just chilling. I do hang out with my friends and watch TV/talk crap/quaff wine etc but there's still something missing - oh heck - I cant explain it!

    So once again, its bedtime and I'm reading this thread - great! Anyway ((((((hugs))))))) to all the singletons in need to some TLC! nitey nite peeps.

  • Pea, you'll be too busy doing to have time for letching in Regensburg .... best leave that to those of us with more time on our hands image

    I did pull an 83 year old in the ice cream queue at Sandringham this summer.  I don't think he had his own teeth but I didn't ask as I am not sure I really wanted to know.

  • TP, there is ALWAYS time for letching, make no mistake!!! image
  • I don't want you to be overworked, so I shall letch on your behalf.  It's the least I can do.  I might get photos if you ask nicely.
  • *asks nicely*

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    I need a man. Preferablt Javier Bardem. Can you arrange that oh Tickledy Pinkious One????
  • I had to google him and he's not really that appealing so I'll not fight you for him.  I'll get him ordered up through our wholesaler tomorrow image  Sale or return so you can try before you buy image

  • Not appealling??! Are you mad?!? image Ooh when you see the nice pics, he is hot hot hot. Don't look at the 'No Country For Old Men' pics - they are scary!!! I'm happy to try before I buy though. I think I need to try for about a month, just to be sure.

    *texts boss to say i'll not be in until November*
  • Tickled Pink wrote (see)

    Pea, you'll be too busy doing to have time for letching in Regensburg .... best leave that to those of us with more time on our hands image

    image If I wasn't such a ugly fecker I'd be worried right now. image

    Just remember Cona will probably bring his wife so no drooling this time. image
  • Aw don't say that Cake, you should be worried! image
  • This is a good thread

    I can relate to the just chilling with a cosy feeling when there is nothing planned

    But I think similat interests are good although i recently met the other half of a couple where I had met the guy before and they have completely different interests but respect and support each others (sometimes time consuming) lives and I would say they are one of the most stable, interesting and solid seeming couples I have ever met

    I am interested in Mikes Mythology thing but then I am looking into a few things just to let go of patterns that i know are not good for me.  I am a bit of a magnet for psychic leaches and struggle to stop myslef getting drawn into their crap but I am getting better as I basically just blank them out these days - when that happens I am not myself so I need to firm that up.

    PS if you want a shag to blow the cobwebs away you can find it and usually on your terms if you know where to look

  • I also have a male friend who is a lovely bloke and would make a good husband, intelligent, witty, caring, thoroughly reliabel to help out if you need him, but as with all of these blokes we say why are they on their own but we wouldn't go out with them ourselves either

    He has confidence issues and now suffers from depression and I see him struggling as if he is trying to walk through mud.  he had a good up bringin with a close family

    Nam, I like the sound of yours image

  • *throws a bucket of cold water over Lee*
  • Nam - will mail FB mail you.

    It's the indefinable are the things that you miss when you are single.
  • Cake, don't go putting yourself down mate - you need a woman to do that for you properly image

  • image I think you mean the women should be 'going' rather than 'putting' down BDBimage image

    *jumps out of way of cold water* image

  • Lol Lee

    If only you could get over your shyness, cold showers would be a thing of the past image

  • Badly Drawn Bloke wrote (see)

    Lol Lee

    If only you could get over your shyness, cold showers would be a thing of the past image
    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!  imageimageimage
  • Badly Drawn Bloke wrote (see)

    Cake, don't go putting yourself down mate - you need a woman to do that for you properly image

    image Oh we have had the same ex's image
  • To be fair, my ex didn't really put me down.  Although one time we were talking about fantasies and I admitted to the male cliché fantasy of wanting 2 women at once to which she said "Why would you want to disappoint 2 women at once".  It was meant as a joke and it was funny, but still a little cruel when you've got a fragile ego image
  • I think Maddy has a good point, there's been several women mention nice male friends, why haven't they gone for him?

    I suspect the answer is "because he's a friend", but then I guess that's how other women view him too.

  • The One and Only XFR Bear wrote (see)

    I think Maddy has a good point, there's been several women mention nice male friends, why haven't they gone for him?

    I suspect the answer is "because he's a friend", but then I guess that's how other women view him too.
    ...but that makes an assumption that the guy is interested in the girl!  I never assume folk want to be with me, which is probably part of my problem, lol!
  • True Lee, I bet a lot of the time the woman isn't interested in the guy in that way though.

    I never assume someone is interested in me.  Why would I?  It would seem rather arrogant.

  • Maddy. wrote (see)

    I am a bit of a magnet for psychic leaches

    *wonders what that means* image

    IronM.in(erva) wrote (see)
    Nam - will mail FB mail you.
    image will have a nosey when home from the orifice.
  • I'm sure they are Lee - maybe more likely to be if they got the impression you liked them.   People like being liked don't they.   

    It makes someone seem more attractive you think they find you attractive.   I think that's why some people get a lot of unwanted attention - they inadvertantly give off signals they fancy the person they are talking to when they are just being friendly - unfortunately not a problem I've ever had to face.   

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