As most of my 'on-line time' is done at work or after the Mrs goes to bed...(she's pregnant I'm sure you all kow how it is). She doesn't realise how sad I am so its not a big problem. She does know that I came to bed at 2:00 am last night (see FFF club for the reason)because I was on the internet. She however thinks that I was looking at internet porn...if she only knew that the truth is much much worse....I was HERE !!!!!!
I have got away with it so far because Mrs Silly really is silly when it comes to the PC. I let her carry on thinking that you need a degree in Engineering to turn it on, don't know how long it will last though.
But have you tried to explain this thing to other people?
"Well, I talk to these other runners on the internet..." followed by "No,no it's not a chat room really it's just about running stuff and problems we have. But there is a place called the Drk Side..." ending in "It really is interesting, don't leave yet I just want to talk for a while before I go back in"
Hmmm. I explained on a different forum just the other day that my partner walks in, sees what I'm up to and proclaims that we're all 'social inedequates who lie about ourselves'. Well, I may have the social attributes of a paper napkin right now, but I don't tell lies OK?? - much....
This is a hoot! I live with Small and the poodles so don't have to worry about any of this, thank goodness. However, my running partner, who doesn't visit the forum, just thinks it's really good that I have such supportive friends here. If I have any problem with my running (or anything else, for that matter!), she just says, "Go and ask your friends on the forum what they think." Plus, yesterday, when I was complaining that once I start the new job I'll have much less time to spend on here she said, "No, that mustn't happen. You need to relax and the forum helps you do that." So....... some people appreciate the forum's importance in our little lives!
LOL! Well I have my own laptop, office and 'phone line, so much of my forum activity is invisible to my other half. Anyway, should he ever challenge me I have the perfect retort after I used HIS pc one day and found out what sites he'd been looking at!! (wasn't snooping, honest, serves him right for having the History screen on display!) I have mentioned the forum, especially when I was meeting my first forumite for coffee (Lamb, where have you got to?) It's not as invisible as I'd like to think however - my kids are fond of telling people whenever the subject of running comes up: 'she's always on the Runners World website'!
I'm lucky as I get days off in the week when everyone else is at work or school/college. But I don't hide it either, Vampire moans, I ignore it, simple.
my hubby spent YEARS trying to get me to use a computer He made my buy my own and then networked it to the internet
He made a rod for his own back, so cant complain(he does)
I remember him on the internet for hours, and days at a ime I started to think i had no marriage Now I probably spend more time on here than him, as he has to go to school
People at work used to see me on it on my screen and I'm pretty sure they knew I was chatting on the forums, but I passed it off and said I was emailing running friends from my running club.
When I meet forumites for drinks, again I use my running club as a smokescreen, I don't want friends/relatives/workmates logging on and reading all my chat to my running buddies!
When I met my boyfriend 3 months or so ago, I very quickly told him as we had a race meet and we had it splashed all over our running vests. He has mentioned that he'll log on and read what I write sometime as he wonders what I get up to (What? Er nothing darling....) He hasn't said anything to me yet whether he actually has or not. To be honest if he did, it would be a bit like snooping and checking up on me and he might as well read all my emails, post and texts, or earwigging when I'm on the phone. I do muck about a lot on here, all be it harmlessly and in the support of friends etc., and if he ever complained he'd probably get an ear bashing from me for being such a sneak.
Do I read his texts/post/emils etc.,? NO. So why should he.
I'm with Sassie here. I live without the benefit of partner or poodles and enjoyed meeting other forumites briefly on New Years Day. It made turning up on my own much easier. I've also learned a bit more about running since I've been here.
May I also point out that there are real people on the end of all these screen-names, and this is just another means of communication?
I can understand that if you spend all your time chatting to friends and ignoring your family, they would feel a bit miffed, but hey, we can do that with the telephone as well if we are that way inclined. And this is better entertainment than tv.
I could have written LK of the N's thread! Mrs Rat (oh how she'd cringe to hear me referring to her as such) calls me 'Geek Boy'. As in 'on your running site again Geek Boy'
Mine pays just a passing interest, but not really bothered by my time on here. My computer is in the lounge so I'm always in the same room and he does shift work so very often he's not here when I'm logged on.
Mine calls himself a running widow and pretends he thinks I'm having an affair. He reckons I use the forums to set up meetings and then pretend to go for a run when really I'm out on the batter!
Mr Hopper is forever playing Everquest on the internet so really can't complain - at least here all the people are real and we talk about real life, he spends his time plotting to kill giants and dragons and such like.
We have to have a PC each cause we just couldn't share. I think he is pleased to see me here cause it makes him feel less sad!
Hubbie is the one who stays up till 2am every day on the PC so despite my RW addiction I'm still an PC widow.
Actually, it's the kids who are appalled at the time I spend here. I guess they have been well trained at school to think that forums are wicked, and on the whole I am not minded to lead them to think otherwise. When challenged I simply say Or?, and they go quiet again. There's always worse that Mama could be doing.
Have tried to talk things over with the Mr but he doesn't see that I feel the same about his online games but I don't argue over it. I have just come online and already he has had a go at me. So my time is always very short to keep the peace.
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"Well, I talk to these other runners on the internet..."
followed by
"No,no it's not a chat room really it's just about running stuff and problems we have. But there is a place called the Drk Side..."
ending in
"It really is interesting, don't leave yet I just want to talk for a while before I go back in"
Well I have my own laptop, office and 'phone line, so much of my forum activity is invisible to my other half. Anyway, should he ever challenge me I have the perfect retort after I used HIS pc one day and found out what sites he'd been looking at!! (wasn't snooping, honest, serves him right for having the History screen on display!)
I have mentioned the forum, especially when I was meeting my first forumite for coffee (Lamb, where have you got to?)
It's not as invisible as I'd like to think however - my kids are fond of telling people whenever the subject of running comes up: 'she's always on the Runners World website'!
<falls on knees and grovels>
...just a couple that Mr has picked up on and recalls with great hilarity tinged with scorn.....
..he thought I was mad when I ironed my snail onto my running gear!
..still friends?
He made my buy my own and then networked it to the internet
He made a rod for his own back, so cant complain(he does)
I remember him on the internet for hours, and days at a ime
I started to think i had no marriage
Now I probably spend more time on here than him, as he has to go to school
When I meet forumites for drinks, again I use my running club as a smokescreen, I don't want friends/relatives/workmates logging on and reading all my chat to my running buddies!
When I met my boyfriend 3 months or so ago, I very quickly told him as we had a race meet and we had it splashed all over our running vests. He has mentioned that he'll log on and read what I write sometime as he wonders what I get up to (What? Er nothing darling....) He hasn't said anything to me yet whether he actually has or not. To be honest if he did, it would be a bit like snooping and checking up on me and he might as well read all my emails, post and texts, or earwigging when I'm on the phone. I do muck about a lot on here, all be it harmlessly and in the support of friends etc., and if he ever complained he'd probably get an ear bashing from me for being such a sneak.
Do I read his texts/post/emils etc.,? NO. So why should he.
Rant over
May I also point out that there are real people on the end of all these screen-names, and this is just another means of communication?
I can understand that if you spend all your time chatting to friends and ignoring your family, they would feel a bit miffed, but hey, we can do that with the telephone as well if we are that way inclined. And this is better entertainment than tv.
Mrs Rat (oh how she'd cringe to hear me referring to her as such) calls me 'Geek Boy'.
As in 'on your running site again Geek Boy'
Hey maybe a new nickname here?
We have to have a PC each cause we just couldn't share. I think he is pleased to see me here cause it makes him feel less sad!
Hubbie is the one who stays up till 2am every day on the PC so despite my RW addiction I'm still an PC widow.
Lindi
Actually, it's the kids who are appalled at the time I spend here. I guess they have been well trained at school to think that forums are wicked, and on the whole I am not minded to lead them to think otherwise. When challenged I simply say Or?, and they go quiet again. There's always worse that Mama could be doing.
My housemates are all on the internet as well - there is only one net connection (ADSL) in the house, we have set up a LAN to share it. geek-tastic
Well, I ot stopping
ive had more support from you lot in 5 months than ive EVER had from him