No, that does make sense Minty. Have done a couple of afternoons down the RC cig free, its just after a few pints that I crave. So next time, stronger, higher, mightier etc.
Why on earth would you think that, just because the nicotine leave the body in 3 days, the body doesn't still crave it? Check out the latest research on the changes that nicotine makes to the brain.
if your brain says it is a feeling caused by ciggies and perpetuated by them -so it is best not to have one what is prob. Does your kidney or summat say -eh "wait a minute" it really means you wanna fag"
I must admit SOG -6 days on I still get an uncomfortable edgy feeling in my bod. My brain(bit pickled but there) says oh that is the feeling you used to think fags got rid of whereas they create it.
I don't really crave at all, and haven't for many weeks. From my perspective there are two things going on. The physical addiction and the habit/psychological dependence. They are somewhat intertwined I think. For me, and I think for many other people, they are very difficult to tackle together.
The approach I took was to get used to being a non-smoker without experiencing the intense withdrawal symptoms I'd experienced before by using the patch. This was very successful. Within three weeks I knew I didn't need the patch any more.
Now all I have are occasions when I think "right, I'll go and have a fag now". These are typically at the end of a task or when getting ready for a difficult situation. They are slightly annoying, but I just remind myself that I don't do that any more. 30 seconds and the thought passes.
Incidentally, the lead-up to this quit is relevant. I had to spend some time at one of our sites in California in the summer. Knowing that I would have little or no opportunity to smoke during the day I equipped myself with patches. I used them during the day then took it off and smoked during the evening. I found that it really did very much diminish my desire to smoke, to the extent that I was smoking very little. This then encouraged me to go for the quit in September.
I agree with the two bits SOG - but I reckon the physical is a doddle if you can deal with the psychological adequately. your strategy is a good one if your brain tells you that. My brain can tell me tnat I am having sex with Anna Friel - and I can feel it and like to prolong it. Yip with "having a fag" -it dont last long and if you know you dont enjoy it -of coure it will disappear. Bet if you said -ooh they are so lovely, I miss them more than anything you'll be tearing your hair out.
you have done brill SOG - and you can have my support(autographed if you like):O)
Hoose, I don't care what method anyone uses to quit smoking. Cold turkey, acupuncture, NRT, counselling, you can stick carrots up your a*se if it helps. What I do have an issue with is people like Allan Carr telling people that his way is the only true way(tm). From my perspective he is just plain wrong about some things and his method was about as much use to me as asking the fairies to make the nasty cigarettes go away. If it works for you, that's great, and I'm rooting for you.
thats it innit - we all have different takes on it. I agree i the horses for courses to ann extent but am biased coz I sufferred so much with NRT and so little with Allen Carr. Guess my mind was in a closer place.
by " fairies" do you mean Colin and Justin -the designers.? Well if you struggle again I'll ask them to pop 'round and scare the nicotine monster.
I don't mind in the slightest that his method didn't work for me. What I do find objectionable are his assertion that other methods are wrong/bad and his refusal to allow his method to be fairly tested in scientific trials, i.e. with follow-up at appropriate intervals etc.
The amount of peops who appear to be pussy footing around me saying "are you OK" is getting on my tits. I have stopped poisoning myself - guess what? - I don't feel too bad about it neither. Usually people wiould be concerned about your wellbeing when you ARE poisoning yourself would they not?
dunno -I just find it funny.
oh yes you lot -very very very well done for not poisoning yourself - I hope are OK!
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So next time, stronger, higher, mightier etc.
what exactly in the fag do you crave?
(dfevils ad here ah:O)
(very good poit though;O))
just had a thought - if I see my ex -I can blame my hand for a craving to smack her one. "well your honor........"
The approach I took was to get used to being a non-smoker without experiencing the intense withdrawal symptoms I'd experienced before by using the patch. This was very successful. Within three weeks I knew I didn't need the patch any more.
Now all I have are occasions when I think "right, I'll go and have a fag now". These are typically at the end of a task or when getting ready for a difficult situation. They are slightly annoying, but I just remind myself that I don't do that any more. 30 seconds and the thought passes.
Incidentally, the lead-up to this quit is relevant. I had to spend some time at one of our sites in California in the summer. Knowing that I would have little or no opportunity to smoke during the day I equipped myself with patches. I used them during the day then took it off and smoked during the evening. I found that it really did very much diminish my desire to smoke, to the extent that I was smoking very little. This then encouraged me to go for the quit in September.
you have done brill SOG - and you can have my support(autographed if you like):O)
by " fairies" do you mean Colin and Justin -the designers.? Well if you struggle again I'll ask them to pop 'round and scare the nicotine monster.
Seems like Allen Carr gets your back up.
I don't mind in the slightest that his method didn't work for me. What I do find objectionable are his assertion that other methods are wrong/bad and his refusal to allow his method to be fairly tested in scientific trials, i.e. with follow-up at appropriate intervals etc.
- bl**dy frote not so bad now:O)
My God -my sexlife is improving already -dunno bout you but I can "feel it" more and everyfing:O)))
when i think about it its about how awful life as a smoker was. I need to keep hold of those memories.
I think I reachd rock bottom in my nicotine addiction -no way can I smoke again.
http://allencarr.com/central/article/100/free-download-of-allen-carrs-latest-book-scandal
highlights part of what I really object to about smoking.
could certainly put many peops off.
xx
The amount of peops who appear to be pussy footing around me saying "are you OK" is getting on my tits. I have stopped poisoning myself - guess what? - I don't feel too bad about it neither. Usually people wiould be concerned about your wellbeing when you ARE poisoning yourself would they not?
dunno -I just find it funny.
oh yes you lot -very very very well done for not poisoning yourself - I hope are OK!