Some people just seem to have the ability to say what they want and what they don't want and aren't easily persuaded.
I often find it really hard to say what I'd like and can often be swayed to change my mind. Its very frustrating.
Which one are you?
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I hate forward people.
But whilst I have a face AL, you'll always have somewhere to sit.
I can fill you with warmth anytime you like.
Haha, I'll stop now
Fell off chair laughing!
Yes, there's a difference between being open minded and allowing yourself to be swayed by someone elses opinion - which can be a good thing.
But not so good just to find yourself agreeing with someone or doing what they want, against your own firm opinion or wishes, simply because they are more forcefull or you feel you should.
I like to think I'm the open minded sort - happy to consider all options then make up my mind.
But if I really want to do something my way, I sulk if I can't!
I generally do Yifter, but sometimes one has to compromise.....
Really, it's a long time since I've had a good sulk - back when I was a teenager I think!
I'm really decisive and have a straight forward clear ideas,
well i think i do erm sometimes erm do you think i have not sure really? what do you think?
when I was nine, someone said 'you're not backward at coming forward, are you, little one?'
It bothered and confused me until I was 22, when someone else said it, and I demanded: 'what do you mean?'
And they told me. And I said: 'Aaaaahhhhhh!'
In a knowing sort of way.