My problem with Mother's Day is the fact that it seems (like so many things) to have gone into overkill. How people who have lost their mums or have really difficult relationships with them must feel I have no idea. All mothers are now perfect, apparently.
My problem with Mother's Day is the fact that it seems (like so many things) to have gone into overkill. How people who have lost their mums or have really difficult relationships with them must feel I have no idea. All mothers are now perfect, apparently.
I would point out I do get on fine with mine but I'm not about to get her a card that says she's the best mum in the world or some other, gushy nonsense.
She would probably think I was taking the piss if I did!
Same here, booktrunk. It's not a Clinton's Day. It's a remembering who brought you into the world, day. Most of them forfeit so much of their own existence for their offspring.
I might not always get on with my mum but we nearly lost her to salmonella, kidney failure and septicemia 4 weeks ago. I'm so grateful she pulled through.
Xmas, Easter, birthdays, Mother's Day, Father's Day, shrove Tuesday, Black Friday, new years sales, Halloween and all other shopkeeper celebrations can fuck off.
I might not always get on with my mum but we nearly lost her to salmonella, kidney failure and septicemia 4 weeks ago. I'm so grateful she pulled through.
I always do a card for Mother of Muttley on Mothers' Day. We're talking £2.50 plus the cost of a stamp, you bunch of tightwads! And a bunch of blooms. Why not? If it weren't for her I wouldn't be here so I'm grateful (even if you're not).
Agree that schmaltz is out though. My card this year thanked Mum for potty training me and explained how useful that has been over the years.
As a mum, I love Mother's Day. The hand-made cards and gifts are so sweet.
As a daughter, I fucking hate it. It's just another reminder that she's not here any more.
+1.
I had an Easter Egg hunt organised for me - last year's plastic eggs that the girls filled with Haribo and planted round the house for me to find (so they could share the sweets). Big A (age 7) made me 4 cards, including one with handmade flowers, little A (age 4) made me one and wrapped up her leftover Christmas sweets (slightly melted chocolate Freddo faces) all by herself.
I also got 3 bought cards, a bunch of flowers, a teddy, chocolates and a cushion with "I love my Mum" on it. Although they were all lovely, it's the made stuff that means the most.
I bought my mum a load of puddings, caramels and fudge from Waitrose. Got caught up in a conversation with an incessantly chatty cashier which somehow meandered into confused territory that this was all to make gigantic trifle. Sometimes I miss living in the south and not having to talk to people.
Mother's Day was traditionally a religious festival which just goes to show how commerciality has taken over and the true meaning lost; much like Christmas!
I thought Mothers Day was all about youngsters in service being given the day off to go home and see Mother ?
Sort of. They were given the day off (typically the first Sunday in Lent) to worship at their local Parish Church which was better known as the Mother Church. This day was known as Mothering Sunday and has morphed into Mother's Day
Indeed Schmunks and in some countries other religious days were sabotaged by shopkeepers to bring mothers days to the masses, hence the dates being different around the world.
The sign in your restaurant window says there's a 4ft11in height limit for anyone wanting to eat from the children's menu - do you actually enforce this with a long ruler?
It looks like you are back from mat leave and trying to manage everybody again. You don't seem to realise that the structure has changed and so has your job. We are not obliged to attend any meetings you call. Take it up with your manager,
You could argue that age limits for child/adult etc are defined in law, but height isn't, and that accusing people of trying to cheat based on their physical appearance is potentially offensive...
I don't think they'll be giving children's menu to people up to 16/18 years old. More like 10 going by their height limit so not really legally defined.
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Happy Birthday Madbee
My problem with Mother's Day is the fact that it seems (like so many things) to have gone into overkill. How people who have lost their mums or have really difficult relationships with them must feel I have no idea. All mothers are now perfect, apparently.
Cynical, moi?
Well said, not looking forward to my visit later
I would point out I do get on fine with mine but I'm not about to get her a card that says she's the best mum in the world or some other, gushy nonsense.
She would probably think I was taking the piss if I did!
Mine is dead, so I guess it saves me buying a card....
must admit I'd rather have mum around.
Mind you... i'm as cynical as she was, she used to say don't waste your money on a bloody card.
Same here, booktrunk. It's not a Clinton's Day. It's a remembering who brought you into the world, day. Most of them forfeit so much of their own existence for their offspring.
I might not always get on with my mum but we nearly lost her to salmonella, kidney failure and septicemia 4 weeks ago. I'm so grateful she pulled through.
yep, except birthdays
That's good to hear
I always do a card for Mother of Muttley on Mothers' Day. We're talking £2.50 plus the cost of a stamp, you bunch of tightwads! And a bunch of blooms. Why not? If it weren't for her I wouldn't be here so I'm grateful (even if you're not).
Agree that schmaltz is out though. My card this year thanked Mum for potty training me and explained how useful that has been over the years.
As a mum, I love Mother's Day. The hand-made cards and gifts are so sweet.
As a daughter, I fucking hate it. It's just another reminder that she's not here any more.
I know you are trying to be cool and trendy but wearing a woolly hat in a warm office = stupid.
+1.
I had an Easter Egg hunt organised for me - last year's plastic eggs that the girls filled with Haribo and planted round the house for me to find (so they could share the sweets). Big A (age 7) made me 4 cards, including one with handmade flowers, little A (age 4) made me one and wrapped up her leftover Christmas sweets (slightly melted chocolate Freddo faces) all by herself.
I also got 3 bought cards, a bunch of flowers, a teddy, chocolates and a cushion with "I love my Mum" on it. Although they were all lovely, it's the made stuff that means the most.
Pulling your fucking jeans up. You look a right twat.
Mother's Day was traditionally a religious festival which just goes to show how commerciality has taken over and the true meaning lost; much like Christmas!
I thought Mothers Day was all about youngsters in service being given the day off to go home and see Mother ?
Sort of. They were given the day off (typically the first Sunday in Lent) to worship at their local Parish Church which was better known as the Mother Church. This day was known as Mothering Sunday and has morphed into Mother's Day
Going on from the Mother's Day discussion, Zazzle is offering discounts for International Women's Day - is nothing immune?
Coming soon - Spring Equinox sale
The sign in your restaurant window says there's a 4ft11in height limit for anyone wanting to eat from the children's menu - do you actually enforce this with a long ruler?
I have a friend who is 4'9". She's 54.............
My mum is 4"9, my Gran was 4"8. I'm a giant at 5"2
It looks like you are back from mat leave and trying to manage everybody again. You don't seem to realise that the structure has changed and so has your job. We are not obliged to attend any meetings you call. Take it up with your manager,
If they make it an age limit instead is it any less arbitrary?
You could argue that age limits for child/adult etc are defined in law, but height isn't, and that accusing people of trying to cheat based on their physical appearance is potentially offensive...
I don't think they'll be giving children's menu to people up to 16/18 years old. More like 10 going by their height limit so not really legally defined.