One ex returned every single thing I'd ever given him over the course of our 7 month relationship which was so lovely of him as I ebayed quite a lot of it and got some of my money back.
Eight months ago I had a non-invasive heart opp which meant I was going to be in hospital for 3 days and needed someone to stay with me for about a week to help out and keep an eye on me.
My daughter was in Australia, my sisters were both on holiday, mum and dad are in their 70s and live in Liverpool, I live in Northumberland.
I'd mentioned my dilemma in work and a colleague I'd had a short (steamy!) relationship with a couple of years before, volunteered to help out. She more or less moved in with me, was there for hospital visits, helped around the house, walked my dog and generally made sure I was okay. She even accompanied me for my review visit about 3 months later
(Well, he told me it was something I ought to be grateful for!)
He intended to be a good husband and father, and believed that he was. He just didn't have the capacity to make his intentions and wishes become reality.
And I can't think of anything but good to say about my OH's ex-wife. I believe they had their moments, but that was before my time so I've always known her as a strong, capable woman and an excellent mother
Isn't it hard to be level-headed, where affairs of the heart ( or wallet) are concerned?
Where an ex is concerned, there must have been attraction, and closeness. For this to have soured must have been painfulm or at least mildly disapointing for one or the other..... Recrimination is a negative emotion, it prolongs the event.
I have many thoughts towards my Kid's Mum - we were together a long time, and I could spout forth a list of grievances, but it would solve nothing - at least she allows me pretty much constant access whenever I want, and she hasn't moved them to the other side of the country. Many issues remain, but things could be much worse!!!
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Children ???????
Ah you mean the monster that is Sprog 1 (teehee)
He explained the night sky to me and took me places to find kingfishers.
"Find Kingfishers"
He took you to Indian Restaurants?
LOL!! Silly.......
"He explained the night sky to me".
Ah yes, the old, "Lets lie down in this field and I'll explain the night sky to you" line.
Quickly to be followed by close inspection of Uranus, no doubt
LOL JB
One ex returned every single thing I'd ever given him over the course of our 7 month relationship which was so lovely of him as I ebayed quite a lot of it and got some of my money back.
Certainly not you silly cow.
Shouldn't that be on the "bitch about your ex" thread?
Oh aye. You're right.
I'm such a dimwit at times.
Eight months ago I had a non-invasive heart opp which meant I was going to be in hospital for 3 days and needed someone to stay with me for about a week to help out and keep an eye on me.
My daughter was in Australia, my sisters were both on holiday, mum and dad are in their 70s and live in Liverpool, I live in Northumberland.
I'd mentioned my dilemma in work and a colleague I'd had a short (steamy!) relationship with a couple of years before, volunteered to help out. She more or less moved in with me, was there for hospital visits, helped around the house, walked my dog and generally made sure I was okay. She even accompanied me for my review visit about 3 months later
We're still good mates.
Nice one Corinth!
Perhaps the only nice thing I can say is that she lives a long way away.
Sadly, she also has my kids with her.
He didn't hit me.
(Well, he told me it was something I ought to be grateful for!)
He intended to be a good husband and father, and believed that he was. He just didn't have the capacity to make his intentions and wishes become reality.
Isn't it hard to be level-headed, where affairs of the heart ( or wallet) are concerned?
Where an ex is concerned, there must have been attraction, and closeness. For this to have soured must have been painfulm or at least mildly disapointing for one or the other..... Recrimination is a negative emotion, it prolongs the event.
I have many thoughts towards my Kid's Mum - we were together a long time, and I could spout forth a list of grievances, but it would solve nothing - at least she allows me pretty much constant access whenever I want, and she hasn't moved them to the other side of the country. Many issues remain, but things could be much worse!!!
he was a twat who utterly stifled me
sorry
but that's not nice ...................
he was a twat who utterly stifled me but he was good to his mother?
thankfully i wasn't as strong then as i am now or
I WOULD HAVE KILLED YOU