Oh, that's sad.....will it be too difficult to stay friends, or is it a clean break in all respects? You've invested a lot of time in the relationship, so do give yourself time to grieve.
no...we are staying friends. we were friends before the relationship and we have too much together to not be friends, might take a while though. We co own a cat and he is awesome, we have so many friends together too. Just want it to go back to when it was good and we were happy as a couple. But I need my friend more. And there we go...floodgates again
You just let it all out - it's allowed, you know! I'm glad you're staying friends. They are much harder to come by than boyfriends/girlfriends, I have always thought, so when you find a good one, you hang on to them.
I should eat something...and have a shower. Too bloody tired and sad to think about eating. What I'd like to do is sleep...sleep for a very long time until things stop hurting. But seeing as that isn't an option, I'll make the bed. And try to remember the soup recipe for tonight.
I made a lovely soup yesterday (no modesty, me!) - butterbean, bacon and leek. It was vair yummy. Today's soup is lentil and carrot, with a hint of cumin and chilli.
tonights is known as veggie chicken soup...as in it makes you feel better. The irony is that my ex (ugh...hate saying that) made it for me when I was ill...and it's all I ever want if I'm feeling low and sad and miserable. I need to get bread though. Although I might just make some instead.
Oh yes please. Just stick a straw in the bottle. Work was a tad hectic today, I am not sure I could keep up that pace for more than I day. Leftover sun dried tomato risotto here and a big flump on the sofa. I have also chucked some stuff in a bag for this conference. Roll on 4 tomorrow when I head for the airport.
You'll get through this Mima, and if you can stay friends it will be a lot easier. Breaking up is crap
Torch is starting off from about half a mile up the road tomorrow so I think I will get up at silly o'clock and go and see it again.
Practically afternoon for me. I have been to see the Torch off on its travels. It started today about half a mile away from my house so couldn't miss seeing it again. Can't believe how touching it is, I had a leaky eye at one point, beautiful day, my home patch, bagpipes in the distance, the torchbearers looking so happy .... and a very special flame.
morning all...bit of a sore head this morning...the final cocktail last night maybe wasn't such a good idea. I'm making bacon and egg bagels in a min, anyone want one? With tea *adds more cups to the table*
Car to car wash, alarm clock bought, lil cardi bought, quick trundle round Sainsburys, car fed with diesel. Need to finish packing & do a quick clean and tidy round.
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Oh, that's sad.....will it be too difficult to stay friends, or is it a clean break in all respects? You've invested a lot of time in the relationship, so do give yourself time to grieve.
<passes tissues and gives big squeezy hug>
no...we are staying friends. we were friends before the relationship and we have too much together to not be friends, might take a while though. We co own a cat and he is awesome, we have so many friends together too. Just want it to go back to when it was good and we were happy as a couple. But I need my friend more. And there we go...floodgates again
You just let it all out - it's allowed, you know! I'm glad you're staying friends. They are much harder to come by than boyfriends/girlfriends, I have always thought, so when you find a good one, you hang on to them.
I should eat something...and have a shower. Too bloody tired and sad to think about eating. What I'd like to do is sleep...sleep for a very long time until things stop hurting. But seeing as that isn't an option, I'll make the bed. And try to remember the soup recipe for tonight.
hugs mimaduck
howdy all good to see the pub back in action
Hello Loon
I made a lovely soup yesterday (no modesty, me!) - butterbean, bacon and leek. It was vair yummy. Today's soup is lentil and carrot, with a hint of cumin and chilli.
tonights is known as veggie chicken soup...as in it makes you feel better. The irony is that my ex (ugh...hate saying that) made it for me when I was ill...and it's all I ever want if I'm feeling low and sad and miserable. I need to get bread though. Although I might just make some instead.
<wipes blackboard clean and writes this evening's menu>
Spicy lentil and carrot soup
Slow-roasted garlic and lemon chicken with potatoes and parsnips
Maybe some chilled SB to go with that?
Just a pick up drink please
Actually I think I just need a good night's sleep. It's going to be an early one tonight.
You'll get through this Mima, and if you can stay friends it will be a lot easier. Breaking up is crap
Torch is starting off from about half a mile up the road tomorrow so I think I will get up at silly o'clock and go and see it again.
just a drink here please
another day in the pool trying to get to grips with butterfly. or more specifically, not drowning and flailing both arms at the same time
decided if it's piddling with rain all the time might as well go swimming
most miffed I've had to move a lot of plants back into the greenhouse to avoid them drowning. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Morning
morning all...bit of a sore head this morning...the final cocktail last night maybe wasn't such a good idea. I'm making bacon and egg bagels in a min, anyone want one? With tea *adds more cups to the table*
Is anyone awake?
Noone should expect anything more
Damn. You've overtaken me in Sunday morning productiveness.
been working since 7.00
Off to watch 20-20 cricket at Lord's in a minute though
Car to car wash, alarm clock bought, lil cardi bought, quick trundle round Sainsburys, car fed with diesel. Need to finish packing & do a quick clean and tidy round.
Anyone in?
Is there a gorgeous barmaid to serve me a pint of real ale? I could murder one (and more). Just completed the uni pick up run.
Thank you muchly, the first did not touch the sides. Hic.
I'd never hurt a gorgeous barmaid. One or two tw*ts at work might be in danger though.
a double shot of regret with a pint of FFS just to drown in please. Just argh.
I'll just nurse one, once I have got his tumbleweed out of here
Whilst you've got the broom out you couldn't give my downstairs rooms a bit of a brush round could you PS? I have cold and am feeling very lazy.