I am still the same (or was before this) i'me the kind of guy that loves life and gets on with most people - but i'm also very soft and have given her every thing she ever wanted (i'v got a well payed job)
Sometimes when youre always nice, people dont respect you, happens to me at work a lot, cos they think youre a pushover, or doormat. Not saying you are ANYTHING like that Will, buut it would be too easy to take someone like you for granted You have GOT to respect t yourself enough to insist on some honesty from your missis Sorry if you think thats harsh, but Im worried youre just getting walked all over, and the least you desreve is honesty
Will, either you havent seen the signs that shes been pissed off, which MAY reflect a communication problem you didnt know you had OR, shes having a crisis of some sort, and has acted impulsively
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Big hug to you from me
Sorry about the fiunny rubber smell, its these cheap NHS gloves
lol
I can think of definitions, but none seem appropriate.
Where was the gas man???
Will, you may have been TOO nice
They wont wash off
You don't have to answer this, but what about the soft, sweet mushy stuff?
You know, the looks, cards, flowers etc
The stuff you did where you though, I hope/know she will appreciate this.
I say all this on the basis I am not experienced at marriage but have a little experience with relationships.
I think the mushy stuff is the lubricant to a relationshiop where the engine is forming the stronger and tighter bond between yourselves.
Just an opinion.
You have GOT to respect t yourself enough to insist on some honesty from your missis
Sorry if you think thats harsh, but Im worried youre just getting walked all over, and the least you desreve is honesty
Sam, it's Laughs Out Loud. I frequently do as well!
Older tthan you psi, and set in my ways
Fully agree with Benz about the respect.
If you don't respect yourself, you can't expect respect to precis a famous motown song.
Also might be worth thinking about the following, which you may be fully aware of:
You can't make anyone love you, in fact you can't make anyone do anything.
Only thing you can do in this situation is to give love and hope/wait that it will be returned.
I am sure you are doing this anyway, but thought I would throw it in.
OR, shes having a crisis of some sort, and has acted impulsively
Sorry if it seems I'm not being very helpful Will btw, but the good advice given by SP and Benz isn't something I can usefully add to at the moment
Now i want to know what happened to you aged 15
I am throwing stuff out there but don't know if it is stepping over any boundaries.
But whatever happens Will, things are bound to improve